Elizabeth has been alienated from her family for this long.

Time passed:

8th year #pas 

Parental alienation is the process, and the result, of psychological manipulation of a child into showing unwarranted fear, disrespect or hostility towards a parent and/or other family members. Cafcass guidance - things are changing slowly. The effects of parental alienation on children.

Fathers for Justice - Fatherlessness is an obscenity. No child should be denied their human right to a father yet nearly 1 in 3 children now lives without a father in the UK – that’s nearly 4 million fatherless children. Every day 200 children will lose contact with their father & other family members. Help us end the cruel & degrading treatment of families.

End fatherlessness and the cancer of family breakdown.
Ensure all children having a meaningful, loving relationship with their fathers.
Ensure fathers have a legal presumption of 50/50 shared parenting after separation.
Protect children, fathers, grandparents and other family members from cruel and degrading treatment which can result in their forced separation.

The last day of contact in Netley was 18th December 2011 (age 12 years) and then it all started here: 10th Jan 2012 Letter.

Happy New Year 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018 and 2019. I hope you got my 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017 and 2018 Christmas Cards. I hope you did well in your A Levels at Peter Symonds College as I was thinking of you and best of luck at any University you are now attending. Happy 13th, 14th, 15th, 16th, 17th, 18th, 19th Birthday and 20th Birthday for September. I have copies of all the cards and letters I have sent you through-out the last 8 years, along with all the mediation details, court case details, solicitor letters, child maintenance service payments, parental responsibility 'award'; granted to me from the court and much more. (Unfortunately 2 years of mediation and the court process did not help with access due to repeated delaying tactics however I sleep easy knowing I did all I could). Please get in touch for a copy of all supporting documentation & remember there are always two sides to every story.We all miss you and its overwhelmingly sad for everyone; Child, Parent, Grandparent, Aunty, Uncle, Cousins or Sisters. How do you ever get over being alienated from your loved ones for 8 years and counting? Remember that a childs mind is just like wheat before you make bread, you can mould it into whatever you want; however correcting child abuse though is much harder. For half my days I feel I'm trapped in a nightmare I can't wake up from, for the other half I realise over again that it's not a nightmare, this is real. Lets start soon to repair this Liz. Lots of Love to you Elizabeth Rose Allan Sparks

Parents who pit children against former partners 'guilty of abuse' and Measures being trialled to prevent ‘parental alienation’ - When a child will not see one parent - Its a shame that these measures are happening too late for our family. If you love your child why would you brain wash her into thinking that her father does not care? 5 Signs of Parental Alienation

I went into 2018 with a clear heart and open mind. If you owe me, don't worry about it - you're welcome. If you wronged me, it's all good - lesson learned. If you're angry with me, you've won. If we aren't speaking, its cool; however I wish you well. If you feel I wronged you, I apologise. Life is too short for anger, holding grudges and pain. Some friends and close relatives didn't make it to 2018 and some friends won't make it to 2019. So live each day as if it's your last because Its just not worth carrying all the baggage. I want to go through life healthy and happy, making friends and family laugh, just being me.

RIP to those who didnt make it through 2018 you will always be in our hearts.

Elizabeth if you wish me to remove the details above please write to me stating this and I will remove them straight away.

 You can contact Mark Allan via the contact form. @fatherscontact

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